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our if:table

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We have meeting monthly for nearly FOUR YEARS now!

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Most of the women were strangers even to me when we first began.

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There are 11 of us now, rotating in and out of seats. Discussing four questions over two hours.

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With much laughter and sometimes tears. Our stories, ages, and places in life vary. As do perspectives.

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I have learned so much by being part of this amazing group of women. This is IF:Table.

our if:table

This is OUR IF:Table.

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some were on the naughty list

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Since snow is still flying I think it is totally appropriate to share Christmas party pics. I am not really sure how I ended up being so far behind on personal edits, but better late than never!

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We were told to bring along our favorite LPs (Shaun Cassidy, Donny & Marie, and The Suburbs were a few of mine). It ended up being a great mix of music and a fun way to spend the evening. Santa and Mrs. Claus stopped by as well!

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Turns out some of us were on Santa’s naughty list.

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Ahem.

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At least he told us in plenty of time to straighten things out before Christmas.:D

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living with intention – winter season wisdom

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A couple of years ago I wrote about life being measured in physical and spiritual seasons. [Click HERE for details.] While technically living in FALL, I have always been a WINTER gal at heart. (Keep in mind I loathe our current weather situation, I am speaking in terms related to the earlier blog post referred to in the link above.) Living with intention is winter-focused in many ways as we reflect on the lives we have lived, set out to create meaningful moments, and pour into relationships around us.

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It’s about things we pass on – creating a legacy of love, insight, and wisdom to share with others. I try to live this in the here and now of every season. That being said, I have some things on my mind… some “Winter Season Wisdom” to share with all of you:

1) Loving others well requires healthy boundaries. Be wary of perpetual victims and of individuals you barely know asking for money or a place to stay.

2) Actions and words should ALWAYS line up. If you notice inconsistencies between what a person says and how they live, check into things further. A pattern of lying (no matter how small) screams RED FLAG.

3) If someone you have recently met appears to have few (if any) family ties, check into things further and proceed with caution.

4) Trust your gut.

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The good news? It is possible to love others well (even strangers) without putting yourself at risk. Healthy boundaries are key. You will find a wonderfully thorough post on biblical boundary-setting HERE.

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he was the victim

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After a 2-year Order for Protection was issued against my sister on 9/15/2010 (dismissed on 1/12/2012, shortly before the divorce was finalized), our family and others helped Jose put the pieces of his life back together. It has been a long and difficult journey for everyone involved.

Once his divorce took place in 2012, Jose was given sole legal and physical custody of the children. I say this to dispel misinformation currently being circulated about Jose.

Jose is a single father raising two beautiful children. My husband and I have gotten to know Jose very well over the last eight years; he is humble, hardworking, and kind.

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Jose was not/is not an abuser. He was falsely accused and charges were dropped because of evidence to the contrary. Again, I say this to dispel misinformation currently being circulated about Jose.

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So if you happened to end up on this blog after a Google search hoping to learn more, this post is for you.

Becky Johnson Peterson - April 14, 2018 - 4:04 pm

You have a beautiful family!!

Tina - April 14, 2018 - 5:38 pm

Thank you, Becky!

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